2nd May 2017, a 30-years-old Malaysian lady had herself killed after jumping off from the condominium building where she lived with her family. The lady was identified as the host of 【Kepong People】on Facebook. 【Kepong People】is one of the largest Facebook group communities which has more than 110k of members.
According to the Chief District Officer, Ali Ahmad, Kendy first attempted to jump down from a nearby building which was located approximately 300 meters away from her home, however, she was stopped by the public and informed her husband about her suicidal attempt. Her husband then immediately rushed to her and sent her back to their condominium. The husband parked the car on the 4th-floor of the parking lot. As they were about to get off the car, Kendy suddenly opens the car door, runs to the sidewall and jumped off the building.
Kendy was confirmed to be suffering depression and had received a year of psychiatric treatment in the hospital. According to the police investigation, it was shown that the deceased who committed suicide was overwhelmed with her family and marriage problem.
In fact, 6 days ago before Kendy committed suicide, she made a public confession of her 13 years of marriage life on Facebook. She explained how she met her husband and how her life took a turn for the worse after her marriage with her husband.
According to her statements on Facebook, she met her husband for the first time at the age of 16. They fell in love with each other. As they were so in love, they had tried the “forbidden fruit” without any safety precaution. After 3 months, she noticed that she was pregnant and her husband was willing to take on the responsibility to take care of her and the baby. Kendy married her husband with the thoughts of it would be a happy marriage as she loved her husband so much.
She stated that, during the 13 years of marriage, she was tortured by her husband where she has to physically bear with domestic violence while mentally enduring the pain of her husband having affairs. Kendy could not bear the pain her husband brought to her, but still, she forgave him as she loved him so much.
Other than marriage problem, she was also facing another family problem with her mother-in-law where she claimed that she was being treated unfairly in the family. This finally led her to buy her own home with her husband and moved out in 2012.
In the same year, she was pregnant with her youngest son and she thought her life had changed and it would be a lifetime happiness with her family. Unfortunately, her husband had repeated the same mistake where Kendy ‘caught’ him red-handed having an affair, again. They quarrelled about the same issue over and over again. As she could not endure the pain anymore, she was diagnosed of having depression in 2016.
In 2017, Kendy finally had the courage to divorce her husband. However, they still did not manage to compromise about the child custody and maintenance issues. Ultimately, all this build up of stress had ‘forced’ her to commit suicide and ending her pain.
Sources: Facebook, Sinchew Daily
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